What a Narcissist Feels When You Tell Them They’ve Hurt You
For them, the ability to hurt someone is POWER. Power is all that motivates them. Without empathy, love cannot motivate them. So, when you tell a narcissist they have hurt you, they experience it like a temporary drug high.It is the drug that relieves the unprocessed grief and despair of their childhood and their phobias of love and abandonment. Sadistic pleasure is generally only felt by narcissists with co-occurring antisocial personality disorder, also known as malignant narcissists. They can experience fleeting, genuine happiness and euphoria in the pain of others. Both NPDs and ASPDs feel that the person they’ve given pain to deserves it. You are their revenge on their narcissistic parent: they see you as one in the same. They hate you, but they need you to survive. Because they need someone to blame and someone to regulate their tantrums and serve their basic needs. They are children in adult bodies who are drowning in their own broken heart. And they don’t want to drown alone.
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