When to Let Go of a Relationship
Aloha! Recently I saw someone post about relationships in her life and how she felt that they were hindering her growth. That got me thinking about my journey. In 2013, I started to dive into personal development and I’ve worked with a lot of clients since then. I talk to people about personal growth and implementing changes in their lives for the better. Could be for a career, personal health or relationships. Whatever it is for them, they’re looking to create something different in their lives. As a consequence to that growth, they sometimes find that the people in their lives may come across as negative. And sometimes I’ve seen people just burn that bridge down as a result. The feeling is ‘why aren’t you’re supporting my dreams? You’re so negative.” As a result, they let go of people too quickly. So I wanted to differentiate what I’ve discovered personally and what I’ve seen in other people’s lives play out. Hopefully this will help you better discern when to break free of a relationship that just isn’t working for you anymore or when to stand fast and be in a relationship. I can honestly tell you since doing all of this work, becoming an entrepreneur and growing my business, I’ve had that conversation with only one person. I had to let them go, but it wasn’t in a negative, horrible way.
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